Everyone has the power to influence others. You have influences others or have been influenced by others in various ways that you may not have known. There are two types of influences in this world including good and bad influences.
The world is full of bad influences. The devil is the god of this world. Therefore, it is important not to compromise and go after the practices and traditions in the world. When you accept the practices of the world, you will unknowingly become like the people of the world although you may still claim that you are a Christian. For example, a Christian who is fascinated by tattoo will try to convince himself that it does not clash against God’s commandments and go ahead to tattoo his body with all kinds of images. Tattoo is a type of rebellion against God. It does not produce a good testimony as you are behaving just like the people of the world.
Our sin can be a bad influence to others. Others may be tempted to join in your sin. Our sin can cause other unbelievers to deny and reject God. There are many consequences when you are receive negative influences such as misery, shame to parents, immorality, deny God’s existence, and heresy. On the contrary, the gospel bring positive influences that can change your life and behavior. For those who believe in the gospel, they will experience a good change in their life, from darkness to light.
We are to build up others with the word you say. The words you say can influence others so you must be careful with what you say. We should avoid gossiping, yelling at people or scolding vulgar words. If possible, you should always talk about the gospel to others. You may argue that no one will believe in you when you talk the gospel to them. You are just planting a seed of the gospel in them. Others will come along and preach the gospel to them as well. You should not worry about this but just let God do his work.
You can influence others through your lifestyle. As a Christian, you should live your life up to the standards of God’s commandments. When you present a good role model, it will be a good testimony to the non believers. Whatever you do should not be a stumbling block to others. You should always put God first in whatever you do.
Ye are the salt of the earth: but if the salt have lost his savour, wherewith shall it be salted? it is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out, and to be trodden under foot of men.
14 Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid.
15 Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house.
16 Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven. (Matthew 5:13-16 KJV)
Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers. (Ephesians 4:29 KJV)
The words of a wise man’s mouth are gracious; but the lips of a fool will swallow up himself. (Ecclesiastes 10:12 KJV)
Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth. (2 Timothy 2:15 KJV)
Blessed is the man that endureth temptation: for when he is tried, he shall receive the crown of life, which the Lord hath promised to them that love him. (James 1:12 KJV)
Neither yield ye your members as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin: but yield yourselves unto God, as those that are alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness unto God. (Romans 6:13 KJV)
Of his own will begat he us with the word of truth, that we should be a kind of firstfruits of his creatures. (James 1:18 KJV)
O generation of vipers, how can ye, being evil, speak good things? for out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.
(Matthew 12:34 KJV)
Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another. (Romans 14:19 KJV)
Let every one of us please his neighbour for his good to edification. (Romans 15:2 KJV)
Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient: but rather giving of thanks. (Ephesians 5:4 KJV)
But now ye also put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth. (Colossians 3:8 KJV)
Let your speech be alway with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man. (Colossians 4:6 KJV)
Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another, even as also ye do. (1 Thessalonians 5:11 KJV)
For though I preach the gospel, I have nothing to glory of: for necessity is laid upon me; yea, woe is unto me, if I preach not the gospel! 17For if I do this thing willingly, I have a reward: but if against my will, a dispensation of the gospel is committed unto me. 18What is my reward then? Verily that, when I preach the gospel, I may make the gospel of Christ without charge, that I abuse not my power in the gospel. (1 Corinthians 9:16-18 KJV)
Moreover as for me, God forbid that I should sin against the LORD in ceasing to pray for you: but I will teach you the good and the right way. (1 Samuel 12:23 KJV)
For we cannot but speak the things which we have seen and heard. (Acts 4:20 KJV)
I am debtor both to the Greeks, and to the Barbarians; both to the wise, and to the unwise. (Romans 1:14 KJV)
For though ye have ten thousand instructors in Christ, yet have ye not many fathers: for in Christ Jesus I have begotten you through the gospel. (1 Corinthians 4:15 KJV)
And he said unto them, Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature. (Mark 16:15 KJV)