Human beings are created to be social creatures. Everyone needs to socialize and have friends. Genesis 2:18 states that it is no good for man to be alone. The need to be love and have companionship is a gift from God.
Loneliness can happen when you feel guilty, rejected, lost a loved one and etc. There is no one in this world that loves you better than God. The people of this world can make you feel disappointed but God will never disappoint you. If you feel lonely, you should talk to God about it in prayer instead of keeping it to yourself. if you keep it to yourself, God will never help you. This is because God only gives to his children when they ask. God knows everything but he won’t help you unless you ask him. You also have to make a decision to make changes in your life that are triggering the feeling of loneliness.
You can discuss your problem with friends, family members or people in the church. When you speak out about your problem, you will feel that the world is not so much a cold place as there people who will love and care for you. However, you can’t always depend on others for love. You must be a mature Christian and show love to others when you overcome your loneliness problem.
You may feel lonely when you think of the past. Loneliness is a feeling, not a fact. You can overcome loneliness by meeting and socializing with new people. Thinking too much can open a doorway for the devil to attack your mind. The devil often look for people that are easy to attack. If your mind is weak and you keep on thinking, the devil can attack you. It is no good to keep on crying and feeling sad. The most important ting is to move on and forget about the past. You will find that you achieve more when you move on and forget about the past.
Lonely people often say to themselves that they are loser and no one loves them. All these negative thoughts will encourage you to feel more lonely. Instead, you must think positively and be friendly and outgoing to people. If you stay cheerful and smile all the time, there is a lesser chance of falling into depression. Lonely people often have self deflating thoughts that lower their self esteem. If you want to overcome your loneliness and depression, you must think well of yourself and always do what you can to improve your situation.
God promises to be with his children and make them the top not the bottom. You can pray to God and the Holy Spirit can speak to you and help you to go through the feeling of loneliness. God is our best friend. He will always be there when you trust and hold on to him. If you have any problem, you can always tell him and he won’t tell others your secrets. God can help you to breakthrough if you put your trust in him.
Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness. (Isaiah 41:10 KJV)
Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you. (1 Peter 5:7 KJV)
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. (Psalm 23:4 KJV)
And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. (Genesis 2:18 KJV)
Be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the Lord thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee. (Deuteronomy 31:6 KJV)
Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world. Amen. (Matthew 28:20 KJV)
Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee. (Hebrews 13:5 KJV)
Lord, all my desire is before thee; and my groaning is not hid from thee. (Psalm 38:9 KJV)
Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? As it is written, For thy sake we are killed all the day long; we are accounted as sheep for the slaughter. Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us. For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come. Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans 8:35-39 KJV)
At my first answer no man stood with me, but all men forsook me: I pray God that it may not be laid to their charge. Notwithstanding the Lord stood with me, and strengthened me; that by me the preaching might be fully known, and that all the Gentiles might hear: and I was delivered out of the mouth of the lion. And the Lord shall deliver me from every evil work, and will preserve me unto his heavenly kingdom: to whom be glory for ever and ever. Amen. (2 Timothy 4:16-18 KJV)
Hereby know we that we dwell in him, and he in us, because he hath given us of his Spirit. (1 John 4:13 KJV)
Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:6-7 KJV)
A merry heart maketh a cheerful countenance: but by sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken. (Proverbs 15:13 KJV)